Satan Fighting 2 End 20-Yr Relationship 2nd Time
August 03 2012 12:35

A 26 yr-old mother, Rebecca, whose husband abandoned her/took off w/her daughter, has come into the path of my husband to help her get back on her feet. He/her get along/talk like best friends. He spends day/night with her. She's addicted to pills/meth. She's been a bad influence on my ex. Sometimes he stays up all night & doesn't sleep for a few days. He used to watch TV/movies at night with me, but no more. She's figthting for custody & has a court hearing Aug. 20. He's letting her live here/catering 2 her every need until she gets a job/her own place. He enjoys her more cause I'm less social/energetic/don't want 2 party all the time. I'm more of a housewife, & now that I'm 40, I just don't have the same enery I had when we were 10 years younger. I have little 2 no sex drive. He calls me a friend now because for the last 2 months b4 this girl came, I didn't initiate sex. He wants to be taken care of without asking or he thinks I'm not interested & would rather be with someone else more sexual. I told him I feel neglected & wish he'd spend even an hr. with me. He says he feels pressured & wants to leave me. He says he likes being outside all the time talking with his new best friend & he loves her in Christian love. Before she came, he never communicated that if I didn't change, he would leave me. He kicked me out a few years ago due to me getting depressed/needing psychiatric help/meds. This situation has made me feel all those same hurtful/painful feelings all over again. I'm trying to have faith that things will get better once she's out/on her own. But I'm so hurt being a third wheel daily, being called a "friend" & a "daughter", that I don't know if I will resent him too much to even try to please him sexually/regularly when the time comes. I've fallen into a deep depression. I sleep alot & aren't very productive. I told him he's supposed 2 love me unconditionally, through better or worse, but he wants someone that's more his energy level. He can't deal w/my depression/lack of energy/staying in the house, when he's very social. I don't know if things will get better when Rebecca leaves, just pray God lets her win her child back & she gets a job/her own place/car expediently. Pray God's will be done in my relationship with my ex, Chris. He brought me back home cuz he said he missed me & wanted to be with me. We've been together 20 years. I believed we'd be together til the end. Now Satan is causing strife/confusion. Pray that what's best for both of us in God's plan prevails & Satan is stopped in his tracks from causing major destruction to a relationship that God originally joined. May God help me to be supernaturally strong/energetic/functional/able to take care of myself & my responsibilities/joyful/trusting/peaceful/faithful & deliver me from major depression/help me to live with Power/Love/Sound Mind (keep me from losing my sanity/grip on reality). May He guide me in wisom & in truth & help me to love/value myself. -Nancy B.

By: Anonymous